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The real christmas story

What is real Christmas ? Is it giving gift and receiving , Going shopping , Going church and buying new cloths hmm ok lets cut everything short this not any conventional Christmas message this is the true story of Christmas fighting the rejection and being the hope for the rejected. First thing you need to understand is Christ birth was rejected by the world now,  you might be wondering what is this guy telling is going mad is he crazy to make a beautiful Christmas story that we celebrate taking about rejection. Ok keep  calm and read on this going to touch everyones heart and will talk you to because i know everyone got rejected at some point. This is for you. You know Gabriel spoke to Mary and what happen after that this where the story really starts GOD choose Mary to give birth to Jesus and she was promised to Joseph (Read Matthew 1: 18-19). Lets look at a real life scenario that when a person and his family members finds out the bride to be is pregnant. The fam

Not Getting Recognized For Your Work?

As i'm working for a software product company and i was working under different leaderships for the past 10 years. This gave me great insight to how to become a better leader by seeing the Strengths and weakness and being one such a leader in a software company leading them directly and indirectly to achieve there product to a next level. It took my company 9 years to be recognize me and to show the talent was hidden. You might be thinking why it took that much of years to recognized the potential to find the hidden Gold. This what every company face because of the poor management leadership skills and strategies that runs on politics. This is the down fall of all software industries in Sri Lanka. Every employee comes to work for the first time with uncorrupted mind to be programmed for innovation and to be smart workers but as our current companies management and leaderships corrupt it with traditional thinking. When i look at companies like Google, facebook they bring in more i

Getting out of stress triggers

As i am working with a mind controlled(MKUltra) victim to improve her self and to get her out of triggers and from the abuser group I found many ways to help her way out off triggers and helping her to corp up with the triggers This will helpful to overcome your self from traumatic events and triggers useful for your life to understand better your life. Flashbacks A flashback is when memories of past traumas feel as if they are taking place in the current moment. Many survivors of sexual violence experience these emotional returns to the trauma, believing themselves to be back at the scene of the attack or abuse. Flashbacks are also a symptom of PTSD . According to the National Institute of Mental Health, “Flashbacks may consist of images, sounds, smells, or feelings, and are often triggered by ordinary occurrences, such as a door slamming or a car backfiring on the street. A person having a flashback may lose touch with reality and believe that the traumatic incident is

When you try too hard

We when try too hard but we fail. Even you try so much things wont work out then ultimately we put our self down and tell our self we are not born to do this. Now its time to stop and let your self recover and think what went wrong how can make it easy without trying so hard. Sometime we need to try it differently focusing on the failures finding a easy solution. Trying hard is not the solution for your problems. Don't push your self to the limits and get hurt because  you cant achieve it but try approaching it in a different way. First thing you need to understand trying hard doesn't make you achieve your goal but doing it smartly.   Life is easy don't complicate it.

Why people stop growing when they are not rewarded

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Most of us give to get a reward/return. And when we give there is no reward/return we harm our self by thinking its our problem we are not good and that we have just been used. Its actually not our problem, only thing is to do is not to think about the reward but focus on moving your self forward by giving abundantly and raise your self to a place you can give more. Never try to linger and wait for the return because it will drag you down and restrain you from growing;  sometimes the best way is to let go, it will help us to feel good about our selves and move forward in life, in conclusion do deliver but dont do so expecting a return, instead expect only to give more. Being selfless is the ultimate form of being a complete being. This was taken from the teaching of the Bible. Don't forget to share this  if you agree :) Proverbs 11:24-25 One gives freely, yet grows all the richer; another withholds what he should give, and only suffers want. Whoever brings blessing will be